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Title: Sad passing
Post by: discograham on July 27, 2006, 21:37:48: This is an odd one.. and a sad one...
My sons best friend was a great lad... he was 15 and died on Tuesday. We didnt find out until today as we were in Cornwall and no-one told us.
I don't think I've stopped crying since I found out.. (no shame in that) I've known him since he was in nappies... leukaemia got him in the end... so much he will never get the chance to do.
we didnt even get chance to say goodbye..
So I am now.
Rest in peace Wes.
Title: Sad passing
Post by: AbyssDJ on July 27, 2006, 21:38:32: damn, thats a real shame :(
Title: Sad passing
Post by: Mart on July 27, 2006, 21:41:05: dont know what to say
Title: Sad passing
Post by: mud-club-matty on July 27, 2006, 21:41:28: awww thats well sad you son well upset as its his bestfriend
Title: Sad passing
Post by: Edge on July 27, 2006, 21:42:30: Sorry to hear about your sons friend.

Rest in peace Wes.
Title: Re: Sad passing
Post by: schuee on July 27, 2006, 22:39:03: Quote from: "discograham"

I don't think I've stopped crying since I found out.. (no shame in that)
we didnt even get chance to say goodbye..
Rest in peace Wes.

I am really sorry to hear of your sad news, I know what it is like to lose a friend at a young age, I cried buckets, your right there's no shame in that mate.

Can't imagine what it must be like for his parents, and your son, my thoughts are with you all.

Schuee
Title: Sad passing
Post by: Skibum346 on July 27, 2006, 22:51:47: One in one out...?

Sorry for your loss.
Title: Sad passing
Post by: old joe on July 27, 2006, 23:03:55: you know where i am mate

my thoughts are with you

Dazza
Title: Sad passing
Post by: landraver on July 27, 2006, 23:19:37: Life isn't fair

sorry for your loss

Jeff
Title: Sad passing
Post by: scania on July 27, 2006, 23:46:39: Quote from: "landylover"
Life isn't fair

sorry for your loss

Jeff

been there mate.

my son was diagosed with cancer at 19, was touch and go but he in remission, christ i cried some tears.
god bless and dont be afraid to cry
Title: Sad passing
Post by: landraver on July 28, 2006, 00:07:51: Quote from: "scania"
Quote from: "landylover"
Life isn't fair

sorry for your loss

Jeff

been there mate.

my son was diagosed with cancer at 19, was touch and go but he in remission, christ i cried some tears.
god bless and dont be afraid to cry

Glad he's doing well mate.

I've had 5 good friends die from various things (one was murdered) in the last ten years. It never leaves you, but 6 years ago my daughter was born & she really does make life worthwhile.

Jeff
Title: Sad passing
Post by: Littledan on July 28, 2006, 02:40:08: soo sorry to hear that graham

my consurns go to u and your son

rest in peace wes
Title: Sad passing
Post by: PUX on July 28, 2006, 06:56:07: RIP sorry to hear my thoughts are with all off u :cry:
Title: Sad passing
Post by: barmiebrumie on July 28, 2006, 08:08:52: Know how you feel,
lost my nephew at the same age, it was 12yr's ago & time does heel but when something like this happens I still cry about him, he fell backward's down the stair's during a fit (suffered with phisical & mental problems) & broke his skull,

It's good to talk & cry (Real men cry),

John.
Title: Sad passing
Post by: Plum on July 28, 2006, 09:44:44: Life just wouldent be the same if he had never been around, remember all the times he made the diference . . . . . .youve been lucky. . . .
Title: Sad passing
Post by: smog on July 28, 2006, 10:54:21: Sorry to hear of your loss, there is no shame in crying at all it shows you are human.

I too have lost friends of a young age and it almost feels worse than when people of more senior years die.

Life is so unfair.
Title: Sad passing
Post by: Littledan on July 28, 2006, 13:06:21: Quote from: "smog"
Life is so unfair.

very true i lost one of my good mates early this yearwas very had he died of throth cancer, i didnt know him for long as he moved from america to live in the UK with his dad i must of only known him about 6 months and we were pretty close did a lot together *he rode BMX bikes like i did*

but it was hard! :cry:

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It's good to talk & cry (Real men cry),

very true brumie

RIP guys!
Title: Sad passing
Post by: gtomo2 on July 28, 2006, 15:46:53: Sorry to hear that.
its always bad when a young friends goes.
and nothing wrong with crying
hope you and your familly find comfort in the fact he is no longer suffering
and is playing in the ultimate theme park now.

Graeme
Title: Sad passing
Post by: freeagent on July 28, 2006, 18:56:25: Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.

rest in peace Wes.

and for those left behind, you dont get over it, but you put it in its place and live on.
Title: Sad passing
Post by: discograham on July 28, 2006, 21:02:06: You know, I expected a few kind words from some of you, but not the kind of response that you have given. I thank you all for the words of kindness, and the lovely poem from freeagent.. some of you have suffered yourselves and know how we feel..
So thankyou once again for your thoughts and comments.