and my reply is this....
Despite what some people seem to think, we make decisions about the way the site is set up and run.. not on a whim, not with any hidden agendas, not with any dark purpose, and certainly not because we enjoy taking abuse from people.
We make decisions about the site based on a number of criteria, and most of the decisions we make actually generate work for us... and we all have too much of that already. We make decisions based on whether something will make the site more efficient, will make the club run more smoothly, or will provide our members with a better service.
What makes us very happy is when people contribute to the site and to the club... when they offer helpful advice, set up events, organise club evenings... time and time again, it seems we have to remind people of this... and that is a shame.
Comments and questions are welcomed and will be listened to. They will be discussed and acted upon where approriate. Other times they will not. It's quite a simple arrangement really.
We (the site admins) are humans... and as such, we get upset and we get happy... that's what humans do. We also tend to respond better to helpful, constructive comments from helpful, constructive people than we do when people just moan, or go out of their way to wind us up.
Now... there is a good chance that this thread will vanish again if lots of people respond.... and if that happens, well, I'm sorry.. but hard luck.