You should be able to compramise between a hard crashy ride and good handling if the shocks are properly valved up.
I normally like Pro-Comp, though I've also used DeCarbon succesfully but on the LSE I find PRroComp very crashy.
I looked into Koni that RPI recomend as they are valved heavier on the rebound to avoid the problem, but at £168 a pair I'm leaving those in the shop.