What car is this on?
I don't like the sound of black oil after 3 weeks. As a rule of thumb the viscous unit (if you have a Borg-Warner transfer box) should provide enough resistance to allow you to tighten or loosen the wheelnuts with one wheel raised, if the wheel spins with little or no resistance then the viscous unit is gone, if it's locked then no amount of pushing will make that wheel turn. When the car is warm I can just turn one prop slowly by hand, again the torque of the propshaft bolts will make the prop turn if the wheels are raised.